She lived with a foster family from 12 to 14 and then spent a couple of years in a childrens home. Thats the number of times he was relocated between 11, when he and his brother were abandoned by their mother, and 17, when he decided he had to pull himself together. On the back another poem is handwritten, composed on the train into London this morning, fresh on the page. Lemn Sissay was born on 21 May 1967 in Billinge Hospital, near Wigan, Lancashire Higher End, England, UK. The last entry is his letter requesting to see them, at 18. Mum and Dad must have told everyone in my family to stay away from me. There were times when Dad was charged with punishing me in the front room with the cane. He has been made an Honorary Doctor by the universities of Manchester, Kent, Huddersfield and Brunel. Since then his poems have become landmarks, sculpted in granite and built from concrete, recorded on era-defining albums and declaimed in over twenty countries. My brother Christopher is a year younger than me and I really loved him when I was a kid. In the Baptist church, our church, we were taught to question why. Other weird things started to happen. Now my foster mother sends me birthday cards. He is also the editor of The Fire People: A Collection of Contemporary Black British Poets (1998), and his work has appeared in many anthologies. Through my lived experience of being adopted, I co-founded a mental-health organisation called Adoptee Futures, which is led by adoptees and which centres adoptees. A school report calling the boy "a ray of sunshine" is probed for racist overtones, and happily exonerated. I just felt this overwhelming relief when I found out the truth, he says, because I was always told, they didnt want you. For Fretwell, writing and making films is a way of dealing with both his care experience and the racism he suffered growing up in Bognor Regis. In care from 11 to 17, Ben Ashcroft moved 51 times between foster parents, residential care, secure units, secure training centre, and finally a young offenders unit. Written with all the lyricism and power you would expect from one of the nation's . Now, as he approaches his 55th birthday, he's added another: children's writer. Lemn Sissay as a child, with his foster family He tells me what happened when he met his mother a decade ago. Her experience of finding herself homeless and powerless after leaving care inspired her to start a campaign, calling4gr8ness.org to support young care leavers in the same predicament. One of the greatest signs of my own sense of independence when I left care was the day I could ask for help when I needed it. You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey. I believed her. Lemn Sissay reads from his new collection, Gold From the Stone, at Musicport festival in Whitby, 21-23 October, The poet talks about how his foster parents put him into care at the age of 12 and left him there, and finding his birth mother, Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, Lemn Sissay They treated me as if I was a Trojan horse sent into the family to destroy it., Lemn Sissay: My foster parents were good people who did bad things. Wallwein later dramatised her search for her birth mother in the acclaimed one-woman show (later a book) Glue. Insomuch as the foster child is a cipher to the dysfunction of a family and also a seer. I was 10 and we were off to a wedding in our new clothes. He rebelled against the system and later ended up in detention centres and prisons, dealing with drug addiction. Its taken a lot of years to reflect back to my foster parents what they did to me. I had teachers who put me in a box once they knew my background and said, Youll end up doing no good. Reynolds, who contributed to her mother Margarets 2021 book about adoption, The Wild Track, now studies ancient history and social anthropology at St Andrews and is involved in activist groups. This is a great opportunity to celebrate our achievements, says Keith Saha of the Foundling Museum project. Answering questions, he said he is still angry but now it is more defined and he does not maintain the same anger of his youth. 4 October 1979: The Greenwoods are seen by Norman as his parents, and they and their natural children meet his needs in every way. Social workers report. To help others like her, Button has co-founded calling4gr8ness.org, a programme supporting care-experienced young adults in the creative industries. But I will ask God for forgiveness and learn to love you. This was the perfect answer. You dont love us, you dont want to be with us? All of this happened the day after they had made this call to the social worker. And in the Baptist faith a sinner must ask forgiveness for his sins. Ive loved mussels ever since. Charles Dickenss orphan Oliver Twist is one of scores of names plastered over the walls of the room where the volunteers gather for coffee and biscuits before the shoot, along with James Bond, Jane Eyre, Han Solo and Huckleberry Finn. Hes now a fellow of the Royal Society of Arts and founder of a campaign group Every Child Leaving Care Matters. Lemn Sissay MBE is a British author and broadcaster. Why would I think anything else? Poet Lemn Sissay, with the help of Londons Foundling Museum, has gathered 59 athletes, artists, CEOs and others who, like him, spent part of their childhoods in care. Akabusi joined the British army aged 16 and later embarked on a glittering athletics career as a sprinter and hurdler. In prison I became an avid reader, he says an experience that paved the way for his career as a novelist. Theyd come down to see us and say hi. They wanted their children to be educated and go to university. He advocates for children in the local authority's care and is involved in organisations concerning their welfare. He has authored collections of poetry and plays. He's talked before about a later meeting, but this first reunion, on London's South. Because its not just my story, its the story of the people that have been kind enough to reconnect with me and the people that were selfless enough to bring me up. He spoke of finding wreckage from the crash in the documentary Internal Flight which can be viewed on YouTube. She left home at 16 after coming out as gay an experience depicted in her 2011 memoir, Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? They refused. We want you to spend the next day thinking about love and what it is. Now hes a national adviser for England, advising the government and local authorities how to have a better leaving care offer to the more than 80,000 kids that weve got in care. I lost everybody. Both almost insisted Norman had to leave today. Social workers report, 2 January 1980: Attitudes seemed hardened and therefore I arranged to take Norman to Woodfields. Social workers report. Director of strategy and integration for Central and North West London NHS Foundation Trust, Im hopeful that attitudes towards those in care are changing, says Meera Mistry, who was in foster care in London for most of her teens. In 1984, at 17, he was sent to Wood End Assessment Centre, a remand home in Wigan. Ive never used it in a serious way, and I absolutely never will, says Stewart Lee of mining his care experience for standup material he was in care for the first year of his life before being adopted by a couple in Solihull. show more Product details Format Hardback | 208 pages Dimensions 162 x 220 x 25mm | 422g Available in used condition with free delivery in the UK. Its difficult to build a relationship with a mother. Just me. This is very powerful stuff, Lemn, not least because it echos so much of my own life, though in ways very different from yours. He really put it on the map and allowed it to be something that we could be proud of as an identity and talk about as a political thing. This is Lemn's story, a story of neglect and determination . He made me realise that it could be a strength not a hindrance. Shes now a patron of the Bolton charity Backup North West which helped her get her first flat when she was 17. My friends. It made me aware that families all look different and thats absolutely fine., Carl Parsons was adopted at five weeks. CERI - Centre for Educational Research and Innovation, Ceremony of Carols Brings Light on a Dark December Evening, Local Primaries Compete in Maths Challenge, Cross Country Teams Crowned Town Champions, Girls Win Club Stage of Utilita Girls' Cup, 50th Tillotson Lecture Focuses on Biotechnology Revolution, Harriet is Swim Englands Breakthrough Athlete of the Year, Girls Lay Wreath During Armistice Assembly, Lacrosse Team Wins Northern Schools Tournament, One-Day Film School Develops a Range of Skills, Prize-giving Celebrates Outstanding Achievements. My care experience was both traumatic and enlightening, says Johanan Walker, who went into care in east London after she had a baby at 12. 19 April 1978: There is a letter on file from Normans mother, written in 1968, requesting he be returned to her in Ethiopia perhaps Norman should be made aware of this? Social workers report, on which someone has written in block capitals, NOT YET I THINK. They were good people who did bad things. I was different. Even this Great Hall, he reminded the audience, had been imagined by an architect before it had been built. Becoming a young parent motivated her to return to education as an adult. Paperback. These moments stuck in my memory. He tapped the indicator and pulled quietly into a lay-by and turned the engine off. He advocates for children in the local authority's care and is involved in organisations concerning their welfare. The Care Leavers Association is a national user-led charity aimed at improving the lives of care leavers of all ages. I spent my life searching for my birth family. One dual carriageway, with a single destination: Woodfields. For ever, for ages, until the end came, no matter how volatile the day had been, Id pray shed open the bedroom door before I slept, Id pray shed sit on the edge of my bed and sing me to sleep as she did when I was younger. Poet Lemn Sissay, with the help of London's Foundling Museum, has gathered 59 athletes, artists, CEOs and others who, like him, spent part of their childhoods in care. My Name Is Why: Quick Reads 2022: Amazon.co.uk: Sissay, Lemn: 9781838854645: Books Skip to main content .co.uk Hello Select your address Now Im starting to realise that it did really have an impact on me, she says. Healing can hurt too. Im not sure what I think of this, he says, anxiously, before concluding that, if Lemn did it, it must be OK. Why - and the search for the answer to why - became the word that defined Lemn . His mother was asked to sign adoption papers, but refused; she wanted him back when she could manage better. I have a very happy childhood memory of being in Scotland on holiday when I was about four. Thats all I knew. Lemn Sissay is a BAFTA-nominated, award-winning international writer and broadcaster. This is the story of being stolen by the state and his 17 years in local authority care. His love will shine through me and them. Mr and Mrs Greenwood realise there may be many problems ahead with Norman. The skies are grey. I got racial abuse for a small amount of time, he recalls. This is Lemn's story: a story of neglect and determination, misfortune and hope, cruelty and triumph. Lemn Sissay: 'My foster parents were good people who did bad things' Interview by Donna Ferguson The poet talks about how his foster parents put him into care at the age of 12 and left him there,. Growing up, the moment someone found out I was care-experienced, theyd make negative assumptions, says Lucy Reynolds, who had moved in and out of care eight times before being adopted aged seven. I know from reading the very brief information I have on my birth parents that my natural mother wanted me to have a better life than she could give me, he says. "I found out about your past and then I heard you on Desert Island Discs," Lisa told Lemn . Yet in 1980, at the age of 12, young Norman was abruptly expelled from his white . Photo-Greenbelt Over the weekend, black British author, poet and playwright Lemn Sissay did his nation and the black community proud by picking up the very prestigious 2019 Pen. Id never thought of myself as a different person., Principal and artistic director of Bird College, Sidcup. If they were asking me whether I loved them or not, and if they were the ones who taught me about love, then maybe I didnt love them, otherwise they wouldnt ask. Thank you to every venue that has booked me as a poet and writer over the past thirty five years. It's a bolt from the blue. The sculpture commemorates the abolition of the transatlantic slave trade in 1807, which began the process of the emancipation of slaves throughout the British Empire. Instead of celebrating success despite the odds, we urgently need to improve the odds.. She was taken into a mother and baby unit as a 12-year-old mum, and had to fight to keep her daughter. Mr Sissay detailed his experiences in the British care system in his autobiography of his early life - My Name Is Why. From 13, he lived at a Barnardos care home in Ripon, North Yorkshire. My experience has taught me the importance of having kind, supportive adults in the lives of children in care to help them feel safe, cared for and treated like one of the family, she says. Lucy Sheen, whose Chinese name is Chau Lai-Tuen, aged one in the home of her adoptive parents. Poet Lemn Sissay and actress Lisa Faulkner became friends on Twitter, united by one common interest: children in the British care system. He was taken into long-term foster care in Wigan and named Norman Greenwood. Social services placed the baby Lemn into long-term foster care, advising the foster family to treat this as adoption. Raising a joyous toast to the forgotten and the forgettable, Sissay recognizes the power we give to what we pay attention to and invites us to look anew at all that has been undervalued. Thank you. He has been made an Honorary Doctor by the universities of Manchester, Kent, Essex, Huddersfield and Brunel, and in 2019 . I was a very challenging and complex young person. His memoir about that time, Fifty-One Moves, is now taught at universities and Ashcroft is a founding member of the campaign group Every Child Leaving Care Matters. She looked at me as if I had wounded her. Im out here, on my own, doing the best I can, with the very little that any family member is going to offer me. His Landmark poems are visible in London, Manchester, Huddersfield and. I was always falling uphill, he says. It could be: this is everybodys problem., Ive started to connect with my identity as an adopted person a lot more in the past couple of years, says Luke Wright, who was adopted at five weeks. My name, my brother . My sisters lived in London with my blood parents in a black world. What happens if you want to be neither? His mother, a young Ethiopian studying in England, had refused to give him up for adoption when he was born in 1967. The installation, Superman Is a Foundling, is another of Sissays initiatives, drawing attention to the ubiquity of the orphan in popular culture, and it momentarily shocks the poet and performer Luke Wright to find his own history reflected in a literary trope. The car filled with quiet loss. They told me they were my parents forever. Being in foster care is probably the primary reason why I had a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder, says Derek Owusu, whose award-winning debut novel, That Reminds Me, explores the after-effects of a childhood in care. Lemn Sissay was stolen by the state. All I knew was that my birth mother, the woman who had my face and my blood, was from Africa and Africa was where poor people were. I was causing problems for everyone. It upset my brother when he realised what he hadnt taken on board., Photography/film rep, exec producer and consultant, In the 1990s Loo How, who was adopted at six weeks by a very Christian white family in Bristol, went on a journey to track down her biological parents. His Landmark poems are visible in London, Manchester, Huddersfield and Addis Ababa. Lemn Sissay, writer and Chancellor of the University of Manchester, held the Great Hall of Bolton School Girls' Division mesmerised during an emotional rollercoaster of an evening. Later, while piecing together his origins, he discovered that his mother had pleaded for his return and been denied by social services. Riordan was in respite care several times during his first four years. The poemEmperors Butterfly Makerpaid tribute to the artists and entertainers who fill our leisure time he reminded the audience that once we have made our money we turn to music or poetry or art or literature, all of which have been imagined by someone. They moved between several foster placements before entering a childrens home. I still think love is the most important thing. As depicted in Steve McQueens TV series Small Axe, he was sent to live in Brixton, where his involvement in the 1981 uprisings led to his incarceration aged 18. Lemn told how in 1967 his mother, aged 21 and unaware that she was pregnant, left Ethiopia to study in England. As with most brothers, Christopher and I fought like snakes on each others territory. The social worker handed Lemn to foster parents and declared his name Norman. I know so many care-experienced people whove had that further experience of being homeless, being a rough sleeper, living in hostels, sofa-surfing, all that kind of stuff.. Its been fine., Greg Bramble counts himself lucky that he and his brother Richard, also featured, had a stable experience with a foster family in Warwickshire, but leaving his birth family aged 10 was traumatic, and negotiating their new family life was often fraught. Then it was time for a love poem, which he believes is read at a wedding at least every two weeks and is available for free online:Invisible Kisses. He followed his dad into the antiques trade. Its about thriving in life and doing what makes you happy., Zarina Bhimji was taken into a childrens home at 14, then a foster family. We look at reclaiming the adoption narrative and reframing the worlds view on adoption, and also helping adult adoptees heal from their trauma.. I put it to him that it was the only home the boy had known.. These are the words of Mr Graves, the headteacher in my files, in January 1976, from the social workers report: Spoke to Mr Graves several times on the phone and eventually visited the school. Interspersing readings from his new collection Gold from the Stone with moving and raw recollections of his childhood, Lemn transfixed the audience. They include Olympic medallist Kriss Akabusi; novelist Jeanette Winterson; the comedian and Observer columnist Stewart Lee, and the Turner prize-nominated photographer and film-maker Zarina Bhimji. The view of care leavers is typically: unable to achieve a higher education, expected to fail in life, says Michelle Brown, who went into care at 11 and was hugely let down by her local authorities she was left on the streets aged 15 after one of her foster carers relocated. Now he works as a theatre-maker working with young and emerging artists, many of whom are also care-experienced. It was a taxing legal process that ended three years later, in 2015, with an out-of-court settlement. Her care experience in West Yorkshire was reasonably positive, partly because I was just happy to have a home. My mother was a manic depressive, so I was in and out of care. We had the same rivalry most brothers have. He was British and Ethiopian. My body will skip around the table like a sprite on the solid stone floor. I forgave her to her face. Read the scriptures and give us your most honest and truthful answer tomorrow.. I looked at their faces to see if I had said the right thing. I had nothing to put in the locker by my bed. Cato was born on the Caribbean island of Grenada and adopted as a baby by white parents in Brighton, along with his brother. Someone gave me a fish-finger sandwich and I was like, Ive made it. Leaving care was harder: The social housing that I got put into was not the best there were needles all over the floor and blood on the wall and the support wasnt always the greatest. Support for care leavers has since improved, Mahmood says, thanks to new policies from her local authority in Kirklees. Books were a way to escape from the madness around me, be that foster care, family, or residential homes. Lemn Sissay is a poet, author and broadcaster who was the official poet of the London Olympics in 2012. He reflected how he had since forgiven his foster parents, saying they did the best they could and he had also received apologies from Wigan Council. He is now Birds principal and artistic director. Postscript: After Woodfields, Lemn Sissay was sent to two more childrens homes. He is in two minds about searching for his birth parents. Ive put a great amount of my own time back into trying to improve things for other people., It destroys you as a person, the amount of anxiety you develop from always expecting something to go wrong in your life, says Tarell Mcintosh, who became homeless after two local authorities in south London failed to properly care for him. But I felt different. In junior school, he proudly announced that he was adopted and half-Pakistani. It was about having support and confidence, and knowing what is possible, she says, I didnt even know what an artist was.. I loved the sibling rivalry. Sissay realised he'd been stolen. I studied the question for a day and a night, I prayed to God, and I read the Bible to see if a passage would answer the question. Theyre part of a poem-a-day project by their author Paul Cookson, who was born in the north of England and adopted shortly afterwards by a family in Essex. $12.79 12 Used from $6.23 32 New from $8.47. All images courtesy of contributors, Council where Logan Mwangi was murdered worryingly dependent on agency care, Councils in England and Wales pay 1m a year to house child in private care home, Private childrens home bosses in England criticised over huge profits, Council paid 60k a week for wholly unsuitable place for vulnerable girl, Almost a third of disabled children and teenagers face abuse, global study finds, UKhas sleepwalked into dysfunctional childrens social care market, says regulator, Revealed: money for educating excluded children funded Bolton bar owners social life, Bolton childrens home shut down for serious and widespread failures, Access to NHS mental health for children remains a postcode lottery, Childrens social care system unfit for purpose in England, Key to the photo of people whove spent time in care, with a list of their names, the notorious Shirley Oaks childrens home. I brought all these questions home. His mother, on arriving in the UK, asked for him to be temporarily fostered as she needed to study; she would not sign papers allowing him to be adopted. I was excited because the family meeting was just me and Mum and Dad. Mum smelled like mums smell; there must be a smell a child is attuned to from being a baby, a cross between baby powder and witch hazel. Sissay was the official poet of the 2012 London Olympics, has been chancellor of the University of Manchester since 2015, and joined the Foundling Museum 's board of trustees two years later, having previously been appointed one of the museum's fellows. I dont feel like its for me to make a story out of their sacrifices and goodwill., Director of access and participation, Rada, and co-director of We Are Bridge, Its so important to celebrate the successes, says Axa Hynes of the photoshoot at the Foundling Museum, but because there were so many hurdles it can also feel uncomfortable, a distraction from the deep, systemic societal change that has to happen. Hynes went into care aged 10, fostered by a family friend who had already been giving her family emotional and practical support. It was a question to which I already had the answer. I was just nudging into adolescence at the time, and theyd recently had their third child, Helen. I started thinking all over again. Its really horrible.. During this time, no care worker knew him for beyond a year and meanwhile he had lost his parents, his siblings and other family, his friends, his first girlfriend, his town and his identity. (He later rejoined his mother after she remarried.) Ludford began as a cleaner at Manchester city council before working her way up, earlier this year, to lord mayor. Although its going to take time to shift the stigma and change the system, I believe it will happen.. One thing many share is dark memories of the shame and stigma they suffered. Now hes written a lyrical memoir describing his experiences, Lemn Sissay, poet, performer and chancellor at the University of Manchester, was born in Billings Hospital near St Margarets House for pregnant unmarried girls and women in Wigan, Greater Manchester, to an Ethiopian student on 21 May 1967. There's only one person in the world called Lemn Sissay. This was the beginning of empty Christmas time and hollow birthdays. Lemn Sissay, one of our best-loved poets, was fostered as a baby. We passed the butchers and the chemists and Wigan Road and passed the Flower Park and the main park, the junior school and Byrchall High School, and then unfamiliar territory unfolded before me: the East Lancashire Road. He has authored collections of poetry and plays and his memoir My Name Is Why was a number one Sunday Times bestseller. Often, I would. It felt affectionate then, but later I realised something wasnt right. Lemn Sissay said it was "a wonderful thing to be recognised as somebody who has got my kind of past" Poet Lemn Sissay has dedicated his OBE to his younger self who he said overcame a. Over the next few weeks the childrens home filled up with mainly teenagers. It was Lemn Sissay. I slowly realised I was being set up. Spectacularly ordinary, is how poet Paul Cookson describes his very happy childhood in Lancashire alongside three other siblings, all of them adopted. Mr Sissay, who grew up in the care system, shared his concerns after a report, published by the. Lemn Sissay's traumatic childhood has informed much of the work he has created. But success is not about being the lord mayor, she told a group of care leavers recently. Once in the care system, he became known as Chalky White and was moved to a new home each year, ending up at Woodend Assessment Centre, near Westhoughton. He spent 10 months in Wood End Assessment Centre in 1984. Birthdays, Christmas, weekends, holidays I have to be the best family that I can be, to myself. I was lucky to have a loving upbringing, but I find Im never really happy with what Ive done, he says. In that situation, a mother doesnt see her child, she is wrenched into the memory of the father. I had no idea Mum thought it was my fault. It started at The Black Women's Cooperative - The Abasindi Coop - in Moss Side (1984 first paid gig) to todays event at Belfast Book Festival. 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